I am married, I love my wife to bits.
However there has been no sexual activity between us for many years & I have started to struggle with this, especially as I was once into the BDSM scene, so this dry nonsexual sterile part to our relationship is getting to me.
Looked at dating sites, normal sites for singles are no use (I'm too honest and can't lie & pretend to like someone just to get a shag) and those that are for attached playing away, seems to be full on nothing but players or Scammers.
So here I am, seems most here, are here to look/show off &/or meet and play & I am just enjoying showing off & you never know.
But I do have times when I have an attack of conscience, I hate myself for even thinking about having sex with someone else. Other times I realise this desire within me is not going to go away & dispelling it every now and then will help keep us together rather than it slowly break us apart as my desires crumbles my heart.