I will say that with noted exceptions, most women who I comment on don't have the courtesy to at least say thanks. I have had some who comment every time and they know I like them very much however, when anyone comments on my pix, male or female, I always at least say, "thanks for the comment". I would like everyone to at least have that minimal level of courtesy and if they aren't interested in communicating, let the sender know that too. At least it will cut down the comments you need to reply to.
Thank you. I have always believed there is no reason for rudeness. I grew up with the "Thumperism" sentiment: "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all". However, as simple "thank you" or "thanks but not thanks" would be sufficient communications to engender a sense of politeness on this site.
Just let me point something out to your attention, this site doesn't always let you know you have new messages. I've had it happen to me; I could be chatting with someone or in the public chat for example, & somebody else sends me a private at that time but I have no idea of it! I always go back & apologize, sometimes it takes a while though & I think that's when people get offended.
You can change the notification mode in your profile(annoying or delicate), but depending on what part of the site you're on it doesn't always work. I don't know of any way to get notification to your private e-mail if you have messages.
Some of my security software blocks a lot of "automated" functions from occurring in my web-browser. So I often have to manually "refresh" the windows I have open to be "notified" of any new messages.
And of course, sometimes some of us are just simply "busy" (away from the computer, involved in another chat session, busy wanking, fell asleep, etc...).
I think there is a bit of confusion over my intent. I am mostly speaking of comments on the photos when I said few women ever answer. I try to say thank you to everyone who takes the time to comment on one of our photos. That what I was speaking of. As far as chats, yes, there are some who don't respond and I too have problems with communications. Sometimes there is a great connection and I can chat with someone for hours and other times, the messages seem to hang in limbo and miraculously send/receive a long time after they are sent. Don't take offense folks. I would just like to hear that you are reading my comments and appreciate what I say. If not, tell me that too but at least say hi. Enough said.
I appreciate all your comments, thank you! But honestly, you don't have to rub it in that "real women don't reply" & "real women don't say thank you" & "real women don't comment." IT'S NOT TRUE! There ARE nice females out there & on this site! Before I registered here I saw that this was a regularly discussed issue & I think you've kinda proved your point already. I don't mean to be rude but I'm sick & tired of being accused & this type of relation makes me want to leave this site!
And of course, sometimes some of us are just simply "busy" (away from the computer, involved in another chat session, busy wanking, fell asleep, etc...).
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