I'm bi-sexual but more attracted to females, but before I meet a guy or a shemale I get so nervous. Does anyone have any tips or tricks to stop the nerves or any one had the same sort of experience?
I was nervous the first time I was with a man, just like I was the first time I met a woman. For me, there was no difference, I figured if I can be with a woman, I can be with a man too, I was just as nervous about sucking a cock for the first time as I was licking pussy for the first time. There's no trick to it, if you feel comfortable and ready, just do it.
I was very nervous the first time I sucked a hard cock in a video booth at an adult book store, but once I got his hard cock into my mouth I relaxed and it just seemed like a normal experience. After the first time I wasn't nervous any more.
Exactly. Once that dick slides between your lips, your natural instinct to suck takes over and you just suck, suck, suck until you are rewarded with a nice load of man juice.
Again, you're exactly right. When a man shoots his sperm in my mouth I view it as a thank you gift he has given me for giving him good oral service. And what a fine gift it is. It's a living product of his body as there are live sperm cells swimming around in that seminal fluid. It would be a serious faux pas to reject that gift by spitting it out. So I always swallow. ALWAYS! Even the first time I sucked a man to climax. That sperm will go down into my gut, be digested and turn into muscle tissue in my body. Part of him will become part of me. That feels really good.
It is always difficult meeting for the first time or even the second time..Just give him the best BJ he has ever had and swallow his cum, he will come back to you many times..Then offer him your ass and he will smile!
I usually talk on the phone first to get a feel for the person. If all seems ok we meet, get naked, then talk a bit more. Seems to break the ice and calm the nerves.
I think most of us get nervous meeting new people knowing sex is involved. Maybe better to agree not to have sex on the first meet and get to know eachother a bit first? Or at least talk a while before you go to action. That might control the nerves a bit.
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