Wow, it's rare that everyone agrees on the same thing on this site. I feel a lot more comfortable about it now. I had this nagging thought that it was being deceptive if I kept it to myself. I actually tried bringing up the idea around some friends that you have to at least think about dick once to know if it would interest you, I viewed it as getting to know yourself, they were being immature and were like " wait so you've thought about it??" At that point I decided to drop the topic, it was clear I couldn't have a serious conversation with them. One friend saw some links on my computer once and immediately told his girlfriend, they both asked me if I was gay over a dozen times, I found that to be intrusive and pretty messed up the way they went about it

Some decades ago a Dutch gay comedian/actor stated in an interview: "My sexual orientation is none of your business, unless you want to s-l-e-e-p with me."

I would say: It is as necessary as you feel it is. You are the only one who decides who has the right to know; to decide who should know.

Tell your girl friends and boyfriends... Stop there unless you have to make introductions at family gatherings...

Only two peeps need to know anything that happens in the bedroom u and who u are with

You said it pretty well;

" it's just not necessary "

Listen to steffi