yes, not asked by every sex partner, but when it's usually packaged as a fantasy scene to knock the 'chill off' a usually private act of pleasure suddenly becoming a production. Making a game of it has helped me, because otherwise (around women0 i'd be uncomfortable (and Ive no desire to discuss with my therapist)
However among other males.i dont feel embarrassed, and i question (going into it lensed as just playful'guys being guyss thing is cool)
I have been asked, begged and told to do this. I have been warned that if i submit, my power and dominance will be compromised. Much of this goes back to family members feelings about the energy dynamic.Depending on the individual who is requesting, i sometimes do, sometimes don't and sometimes won't.

Looking down, I've always hung 'dress right'
Here's a quick class in the importance of knowing the terms.

'Do you 'Dress Left or Dress Right?' is a term men may be asked by a professional tailor when being fitted for suit trousers usually in bespoke or custom designed tailored clothing.

What the tailor or fitter or even the designer is asked their male client is specifically 'does you dick hang to the left, right or center? This will provide the fabric cutter or builder of the trouser to allow extra fabric that will drape in the area where the client's dick and balls hangs.
Why?

Suits, aka tailored clothing, either direct off the sales rack (but not as a rule-more likely building the components from the fabric swatch catalog up are roomg and draped on the body. Have you ever seen a suit that looks as if it were sewn together with the wearer inside? Doubtful.

Men want to able to move about and not have major business negotiations or transactions worth multi digit revenues or treaties of world importance interrupted by suddenly finding their pants are so tight, their balls are getting racked every time they sit down.
Every man should have at least 2 well made and tailored suits in their wardrobe. A summer weight fabric in a light color, and a darker color in a heavier fabric for winter. You may not think they will ever be worn, but a sudden job opportunity will appear requiring a final in-person interview and baggy beach shorts and tank tops arent going to suffice, think of future formal weddings, memorials either simple graveside gatherings to cathedral filling events. Life at times, demands respect be shown for the dead by dressing appropriately.