Many thanks for your post Old bugle, and you are probably right about answering our own questions. I just wanted to see what others though/have experienced. It's true about the love thing and one of the reasons that I get aroused with my partner is that I love her very much. Sadly she has reached that age that some women do, when sex is a chore and cuddling and stroking are the only things that are  required to make her purr. Hence my return to enjoying cock which is about sex and not romance rather than seeking any sort of affair with another female which could go horridly wrong. Probably better fantasising and walking but every so often the hankering for the touch and taste of cock just gets too strong. 
