So a little back story in 2005 I got married to a woman I met in college. Things were fine till she got involved in drugs and developed a problem. She eventually cheated on me and we got divorced. So in mid 2008 I was in a very low place emotionally. I did not want to be divorced so it of course hit me hard. This was back in the archaic time of yahoo chat rooms. So of course to get my mind off things I went into the local chat rooms just to chat with people about anything.
I found a local room and went into it. At this time you pretty much entered a room an just said hi, told everyone you sex and age and location. So of course I did that,you would get responses in the main chat lobby and sometimes in your personal messages. At this time bdsm was still a very private and taboo thing. So it wasn't the purpose for these rooms, there purpose was literally to meet new people and form online friendships and or relationships.
I went into these rooms multiple times a week for a few hours just talking to total strangers about whatever. One day I got a personal message from a username tiffianyxxxxx yes it was spelled just like that. She said hi asl? So of course I told her the info. She said great and said she lived pretty much about 20 minutes away. So of course the common ground was set. We started talking and became friends.

I know this part is very dry but it is just a background to set the stage. Chapter 2 will be posted soon