Everyone is stupid in their twenty’s. Stop beating yourself up. Learn and apply, learn and apply, learn and apply. Treat yourself every once in a while but not too good just enough to make yourself feel good about yourself. And save (more on that later)

Then in your thirty’s lift your head up and take a look around. There you start to realize all that hard work pays off. Look for a promotion or get another job that’ll reward your talents. It’s at this point that you start looking for a best friend. More likely she’s right under your nose and you didn’t realize it. More people in successful marriages say it’s because they married their best friend. And they’re right.

Date for a few yeas and if she’s ready and able (35 and under) consider having kids. Because your best friends this is the easy part. Then all hell breaks loose if you actually start your family. The best years are ahead of you. You’ll need all the money you’ve been saving because kids are fucking expensive so don’t have more than two. Enjoy these years because they go by fast.

Just don’t worry in your twenty’s. The world is no worse for you then it was for me or my dad or his dad. If anything it’s easier. You can do this.

Interesting comment. It is not clear what you are expecting. Most of the women out there, perfect and otherwise, want two things. Money and kids. They know that to get kids, they have to fuck. Sometimes a lot. They are not really sluts, they just know that most men will lose interest in them if they don't fuck. As they get older, they widen the lens of who they will fuck. At 18, they avoided me like the plague.

It does help if you have some money. Spend what little you have on them. Women like that. It doesn't matter if you only want to fuck them if you say that you want kids. That is what they want. Suddenly, you look good. You are willing to use all of your money on them and you want kids.

But I think it is a terrible price to pay. While getting paid is awesome, getting married is a serious mistake. You get tucked a lot less than you think you will, you almost never get your cock sucked, and all of your money goes for her and the kids.

You are too young to have any idea what is going to happen. I was also in my early 20s, and I had no clue either. I spent my time learning and earning, learning and earning, and saving. Learning got me a better job, and the better job got me money, and the money got me a house, but still no woman.

Until one day, half way through my 30s, I had enough of that. I cleaned up my act, learned what women, relationships, and all that was about, and how to do that successfully. I then got a woman, then got married. That only lasted 12 years but there was some really good moments I wouldn't have had by myself. But I didn't give up, got married again, and this time I'm pretty sure I got it right.

I had no idea what was going to happen when I was 22. But I kept learning, knowledge and wisdom gives me skills that nobody can take from me, and lets me make the best decisions possible to take the best advantage of what was available to me. But I had no idea what was going to happen in my 20s, so I did what I could to make it what I wanted it to be.

'knowing fairly exactly how you feel.