| Way back in September of 2011, I posted my first ever topic to the forum. (I had a different screen name at the time). This is what it said:
"I get kind of frustrated with the common idea that every gay guy is a cock-crazed cumslut who will hop on any pecker or fuck any ass that he can get his hands on. My partner and I have been together--happy and monogamous-- for 20 years. We have outlasted many of our straight friend's relationships! Surely the stereotype doesn't reflect the majority, does it? Anyone else feel the same?"
Other than the fact that my partner and I have now been together for just shy of thirty years (and we're still as happy as hell!), I am still often frustrated by that same "gay guys will suck/fuck anything" attitude. |
To come to Your topic: its true that straight men often think, that a gay man always want sex from him. I think its also a result from "definition": gay is a man who sleeps with men. For me this definition is too poor. I always look at the whole person.
What I do not understand is that straight men/women who whore around, never are accused the same was gay are.
cheers Volkmar141
I dont think so.
Dayum, That is soOo NINJA!
I wish I had the courage to make such an approach
to my friends who have male friends or relatives
who I find attractive.
But I'd rather maintain respect of boundaries.
(Unless my friends actually tell me that I have
a seecret admirer, and then I proceed with caution. lol)
Another recent one has happened on this site couple members said I couldn’t b straight because of my ass pictures.
People judge and the ones that always judge are insecure and feel like they have to act a certain way to a situation.
I know two gay guys and they’ve never talked to me about sex or anything like that but it’s been pleasant conversation.
I think in general usually straight guys tend to start talking about sex when they find someone is gay like it’s someone from another planet or something.
You will find straight, bi, and gay individuals who will fit the stereotype that you have mentioned.
general public understand it at all, no matter how
much we try to educate them.
Every person is an individual once we get to know
that person, and we grow to appreciate that person for
being so unique in his or her own way.
It's not like we're expecting person So-n-so to be
"not like the others"...
On the contrary, it's quite amusing and intriguing
to discover that So-n-so stands out from the crowd
in his or her own unique way.
Well, if there is a gay stereotype then I may have
missed it all my life as a gay man. With NO regrets.
I don't buy into it, I don't care to satisfy it,
and I Naturally couldn't possibly give a fuk about it.
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