Well times moves on, right past us if we aint looking.
I got hungry and went to the local Bojangles to get some chicken Supremes and about 4pm on a Sunday afternoon, there was 4 men including me, each of us alone, about the same age, at all 4 corners of the place. Most had their phones in their hands, I just ate and left.
Once i got to thinking about it ,it was just a grime bout with reality. I am a grey haired old man now, alone and probably better off that way for everyone else's sake.
To those young people out there, enjoy yourselves while you can ,because when you get old, it sucks.

Well,I am about to hit the ole 55 in a week or so.
Feel like 85 and the hair cut I got the other day, not many black hairs fell. Mostly grey.
about a year ago,my size 40 pants were getting snug,so I wear 42's now so they are loose and comfortable.
got meds for the arthritis but the affects are starting to wear off and I hurt again 3 months later after starting the meds
Old age, aint for pussys

Boy,I guess I am just not up to snuff anymore.I put on decent clothes and went to Red Lobster,they are having the endless shrimp thingy and I can eat my weight in shrimp scampi. Crowded,loud,everyone but me laughing and having a ball.I ate good and fought the traffic and made it home safe but feel so let down. I can't mengle, or function in crowds at all.Is it just depression? I know some of the doctors that treated me after i got hurt said I was modertate to severly depressed and frankly I always thought that was a fake or over used illness and it didn't apply to me. I am glad that I am single to some point now as if I am really miserable,I don't want to spread it .

You are not alone. There many men, maybe most, who don't have a relationship going on. If I hadn't been incredibly lucky to find my wife , I would be alone now. I think you shouldn't take your looks as that much of a contributing factor. Attitude is everything. I don't know why but most women are looking for a bad boy until they get married have a few kids and get tired of being abused. Then they want someone to support them and their children. I don't meet women to often anymore since I got out of retail. Most of the women I met at work were damaged goods. Men too for that matter. The only ones left are the ones looking for their second husband. If a woman cares about what you drive, then she isn't the one for you. There's someone out there for you, It just takes a lot of looking around, made harder by living in a smaller community. The computer was supposed to help meet people but there are so many frauds out there that really isn't an option. But what do I know I am just a dumb old man.

It's understandable that you might feel an attraction long hair, small boobs and smarts but you need to be open minded and receptive to the other ladies. You know, there's a truck load of women that might fall into the other category of having shorter hair, BIG boobs and are of average intelligence that you might find really interesting.

Well 2 years have passed since this was first typed and nothing has changed except I traded my cadi. I like my truck but I miss the cadi.

Um,I wore my Trump 2020 hat today to walmart and actually got a compliment from a rather decent looking 20' something gal! But she went along after the compliment and all went back to normal.Just a old geezer pushing a buggy in walmarts.I think someone flushed the toilet my self esteem went in as I can't seem to find it. Some Chest pain and dizzyiness have been worse the past week or so. I need a vacation,

I am to the point in life there is no need to think about it much.
NO need for a erection,no body wants it anyway.
I could be a billionaire and women would still scarf at me.What is it reckon? I don't even open my mouth much in public,so even if I am a complete asshole women wouldn't know it for at least a couple minutes of contact with me?

Well I traded off my cadi,didn't want to but it was getting to be a issue here and there all the time, so if I pickup a woman she will have to tolerate riding in a single cab pickup now.lol


Don't think it matters much. I will be 51 end of the month and I have about come to the conclusion there is something wrong with me I am to blind to see. Other conservative men have women so my politics shouldn't be in the way.


Other guys with some extra weight have women,so my belly shouldn't be a issue.


My hair is about 1/3 grey but I see gray haired men with hot gals all the time.


My penis is not all that big but unless women have xray vision they can't tell that until they pull the lever on the slot machine anyway."Zipper".

Still plodding along.Trouble with being 50 is I might be able to cut the mustard still,but no one wants to make a sandwich!

Hitting 50 sure aint helped my self esteem much.
I appreciate the women that have took the time to respond to my post here.
As you can tell, even though it has been a while since the last post here,I do come back and read this stuff over again to remind me.
But no,I aint met anyone who is interested in a date or anything.
I am just plodding along and behaving myself. Maby someone will come along. But I aint getting my hopes up.

sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you meet the one, women can be cruel creatures, don't take them to personally, but if you don't want an alcoholic, don't go to bars looking for love, you want to find women that are into the same things you are so hang out where you most like to be...if you want a sporty girl, take up a sport, if you like dogs, buy one take to a dog park, smart women are more likely to be found at a library or teachers lounge...just my thoughts on the matter at hand *lix*